There will be a time that you'll be rejected. Take it well. That's their preference. Unless you chose to be someone you're not, then that's another story. If you get rejected, take it like a man. Don't be bitter anyway. You as well may have rejected one or two, or maybe more than your fingers could count... Don't be hypocrite. Don't make life so miserable, complicated. Sanay ka na dapat.
If someone rejected you because of your past, stand proud. They don't have an idea what you've been through, and what you have become after that. If someone rejected you because of your physique, get even. Get someone who can appreciate what you have. Better yet gear up and jog along the boulevard, maybe a couple of biscuits and a glass of water for "merienda", instead of full meal every time you get hungry would help. (ang lakas maka buffet kung kumain kasi eh, chos!). If nothing happens then tell them this... "I love my abs that I have to cover it with layers of fat"...hahaha how pathetic isn't it?
Anyways, You lived all you life without those who rejected you, right? so why bother? Self esteem, yes, it may have a great impact. But contentment, happiness may help you pick up broken pieces...As what other friends who run out of words to advise would tell you "marami pa namang iba diyan". Which makes sense, though. kung iisipin mo. There's just you, and the rest of the world. So get up, stand proud, make the most out of it and thank those who have rejected you, as they don't have an idea what they have actually missed by not having you.
Mads
